Q: What’s the quickest way to figure out what I actually like wearing?

Track your outfits for two weeks (yes, it’s a commitment, no, it’s not forever). Snap quick mirror photos or jot notes. You’re looking for patterns like the shapes you reach for, the colors you repeat, and the “extra” piece you keep adding (a jacket, a scarf, a vest, whatever makes you feel like yourself).

Q: What’s the best habit to make finding my look feel easier week to week?

Do a 10-minute weekly closet reset . Put away the strays, rehang what you loved, and plan three outfits. A calmer closet means fewer chaotic mornings, and fewer “why do I own 17 tops but hate all of them” moments.

Question 1

How do I “find my look” if my closet is full but I still feel like I have nothing to wear?

Accepted Answer

You’re not “bad at clothes”, you’re just missing a repeatable plan. Start by spotting what already works for you, then build around it.

The fastest fix is choosing three style words and one outfit formula you can repeat on busy mornings, because consistency is what turns random outfits into a recognizable you.

Question 2

What’s the quickest way to figure out what I actually like wearing?

Accepted Answer

Track your outfits for two weeks (yes, it’s a commitment, no, it’s not forever). Snap quick mirror photos or jot notes.

You’re looking for patterns like the shapes you reach for, the colors you repeat, and the “extra” piece you keep adding (a jacket, a scarf, a vest, whatever makes you feel like yourself).

Question 3

Do I have to follow “flattering” style rules to find my look?

Accepted Answer

Nope. You’re not a body-type worksheet.

Swap rules for simple questions: does it fit your body right now, does it feel like you, and would you wear it again (in real life, not in an imaginary version of your life where you attend galas on a Monday).

Question 4

How do I try trends without waking up as a stranger in the mirror?

Accepted Answer

Test trends where they’re easy to undo, like colours, layers, or a small accessory.

Keep your three style words as your filter. If a trend doesn’t match your vibe, it’s just noise (and you’re allowed to ignore it with confidence).

Question 5

What matters more, buying new stuff or getting what I own to fit better?

Accepted Answer

Fit wins.

Start with a few basics that feel good now, then tailor the “almost” pieces. Simple adjustments (hemming, sleeve length, waist tweaks) can make an outfit look polished, even if you’re running on coffee and hope.

Question 6

What’s the best habit to make finding my look feel easier week to week?

Accepted Answer

Do a 10-minute weekly closet reset.

Put away the strays, rehang what you loved, and plan three outfits. A calmer closet means fewer chaotic mornings, and fewer “why do I own 17 tops but hate all of them” moments.

Question 7

What if I'm not excited about style right now and just want getting dressed to stop being such a dreaded thing?

Accepted Answer

Give yourself a short, doable challenge instead of a personality overhaul.

Pick one intention each morning (comfort, polish, energy, whatever you need that day) and add one tiny joy detail (a favorite scent, earrings, a lipstick you love).

Build a habit, don't worry about performing a complete makeover.

Question 8

Where should I start if I'm in my 40s and nothing feels like “me” anymore?

Accepted Answer

Start with reality, not fantasy-you.

Use your real life, your real climate, your real schedule, then build from there.

If you want a deeper reset, read how to discover your personal style in your 40s and treat it like the friendly nudge you didn’t know you needed.

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